Jane Campion, 1993
So I don't know how to explain to you why I sort of...wanted not to like this film. You see, there's this thing -- and I wonder if it's particular to modern womanhood or if it existed before then -- where you don't want to look too girlie. Sometimes this is just a matter of personal affinity, but often it has to do with points of pride and/or wanting to be cool. For me this, I think, first manifested itself in a strong conviction that I didn't want to get married, before I ever thoroughly considered the issue, or really had cause to consider it. With film I find myself in kind of a tricky situation: as someone deeply interested in questions of sex and gender in film, things marketed to women often interest me, but I find stuff that appeals to women in a too obvious and stereotypical way unappealing, uninteresting, and insulting to my intelligence. Added to this is a notion that liking anything too explicitly girlie is naive and soft and uncool, a notion I seemed to have gleaned from the criticism of Stephanie Zacharek. I remember her writing that while watching a film by Candida Royalle, the porn star who founded her own production studio to make adult films for women, she fell asleep. This made me laugh; though I don't think I've ever actually seen a movie that billed itself as such, I maintained the conviction that porn made for women was too safe, namby-pamby, and sanitized, and not something in which I had any interest. So I considered myself ensconced in the club of the cool, tough chicks club. But I didn't feel secure in my position there, and was afraid of any display of cultural weakness.
On a related note, film scholar Vivian Sobchack frequently references the scene where Baines touches Ada's leg through the hole in her stocking as particularly charged and moving; Linda Williams cites this quote frequently. And after reading it so many times, having this moment built up in my mind, I thought there's no way I won't be disappointed when I actually see it. But you know what I wasn't at all; it was powerful and intense and great. Actually I think as a whole that this film handles sex and intimacy very well, with a mixture of feeling and deftness. Sex occurs in different moods and registers here -- first it's uncomfortable, coereced, and transactional, then it's more consensual and passionate -- and Campion handles the transition well. (The emotional transition that effects this change remains somewhat shrouded in mystery, but that's often the case in real life, it didn't bother me so much.) She also includes quite a bit of voyeurism, which is always a sly thing to do in a film, and it works in quite sophisticated ways. The moment where Ada's button falls through the floorboards onto Stewart's face struck me as quite poignant. Attention to small details like this are often cited as a hallmark of feminine perspective and maybe that's true, but I think it's also an attribute of old-fashioned, gender-neutral good filmmaking.